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Tantric Wedding
Of all our samskaras, the wedding should be the most observed among Tantric Couple. Every Tantrik couples should undergo a Tantric wedding before beginning life as of partnership. Tantric sacrament, has a very important place in a Tantrik's life as it create a divine union between Men and Women.
In the past and even to this day, Tantra is used by many to connect with another with the need for a relationship, where sex is an important factor, rather then the spiritual UNION that help one grow spiritually.
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This state of affairs will have to change, and will only change when there is a greater awareness of the science of Tantra, and various ritual that make up Tantric wedding.
There are eight kind of wedding. And in the western world Ghaandarva wedding is most popular. This is a weeding between two consenting adults who are in love.
One should not accept anything at face value. In to day world of relationship between Man and Women is left to chance. Such important decision as partnership should not be left to chance, especially since Tantra has provided us with an alternative means. Tantra scriptures contain details of ascertaining whether a prospective bride and bridegroom are compatible with each other. This is known as Muhurtha in a very important part of Vedic Astrology. This single method that has prevented divorce to be a major part of Indian society around the world.
Marriage is a most complicated structure made up as it is of a whole series of subjective and objective facts of a very varied nature. It deals with the psycho astrological aspect of Marriage. It has a pronounced influence on the psychological relationship of the married couple.
Divorce in not a Tantrik concept. Therefore marriage should only be conducted between compatible individuals. The compatibility between a Sakti and Siva intending to get married is determined after taking into account 21 separate factors.
1 - the longevity of the bride and the bridegroom
2. - the larger strength of the 7th house and the 8th.
3. - agreement of the Kutas, of this there are 12 important ones.
1. - Dina Kuta - This is the compatibility of the birth star. It determines the health and life of the prospective couple.
2. - Gana Kuta - This has an important bearing on the temperament and character of the couple. When this compatibility is absent, the couple will not see eye to eye with each other and will be constantly quarrelling.
3. - Mahendra - This compatibility will promote well being and increases longevity. Absence of this compatibility will result in childless marriage
4. - Stree-Deergha - A strong compatibility will secure a prosperous family life. The couple will always enjoy the blessing of Mother Lakshmi. (this can be ignored if Rasi Kuta and Graha Maitri is good)
5. - Yoni - This is to judge sexual compatibility. This will ensure that the couple will enjoy a good sexual relationship with each other. It indicates sex affinities such as, sexual urge, sexual compatibility, the size of copulatory organs.
6. - Rasi Kuta - This compatibility relates to children. When strong the couple will be blessed with children.
7. - Graha Maitram of Rasyadhipathi - This compatibility will mean that the couple will have marital bliss and prosperity. This is the most important Kuta in as much as it deals with the psychological disposition of the couple. The mental qualities and affection shared by the couple.
8.- Vasya Kuta - This is important for it indicates the magnetic or amenability of the couple. The presence of this compatibility means that there will be strong and mutual physical attraction based on love, respect, understanding and co-operation between the couple.
9. Rajju - This indicates the strength or duration of marriage life, thus it is very important compatibility. This indicates the life span of the husband. Widowhood is something that all women pray will not happen to them.
10. Vedha - This represents affliction. When the compatibility is strong the couple will be able to avoid ill-luck and misfortune.
11. Varna - Signifies ego and spiritual development of the married couple.
Brahmin - represents the highest development - Pisces, Scorpio and Cancer
Kshatriya - the second stage of development - Leo, Sagittarius and Libra
Vaisya - the third stage of development - Aries, Gemini and Aquarius
Sudra - the lowest stage of development - Taurus, Virgo and Capricorn.
A girl with a higher grade of spiritual development should not marry a boy of lesser development. The vice versa or both belonging to the same grade or degree is allowed.
12. Nadi Kuta - This compatibility is considered most important. This indicates nervous energy, physiological and to a certain extend hereditary factors. In Hindu medical works (Ayurveda) there are three Nadi or humors. 1 - Vata ( wind) 2. - Pitha (bile) 3. Sleshma (phlegm) Persons with the same humors should not marry
Apart from all this the almanac must be consulted to find the right day that suits both the parties concerned. Good days to be married are Wednesday ruled by Mercury, Friday ruled by Venus, Monday by Moon and Thursday by Jupiter. Weddings must not be conducted on Tuesdays by Mars
There are fifteen days between the New Moon to the Full Moon and Full to the New Moon. Two Tithis make a Hindu lunar month. The most auspicious days are Duathiyai (2nd day), Thiru thiyai (3rd day), Panchami (5th day) Sapthami (7th day), Dasami (10th day) Ekadasi (11th day) and Thriyodasi (13th day) between New Moon to the Full Moon.
The good Lunar Mansions (Nakshatras) are the 4th Rohini, 5th Mrigashira, 9th Ashlesha, 10th Magha, 11th Purva Phalguni, Swati, 17th Anuradha, 19th Mula, 21st . Uttara Ashadha 26th Uttara Bhadrapada, 27th Revati.
The most auspicious Months are Aavani ( August -September), and Pangguni (March - April), and the second choice of months are Thai (January - February) Vaikasi (May - June) and Aani (June - July)
Wedding must not be conducted during any other months.
Auspicious Lagna ( First House) are Gemini, Virgo and Libra. On the chosen day of the wedding the 7th house should not be occupied by any planets. The date should not be on the Lunar Mansions (Nakshatras) of the bride or bridegroom. Wedding after 12 noon is not recommended. Wedding should be conducted on the full moon or dark moon days are not good. Wedding in the mornings are the most auspicious. It should be conducted under the influence of Jupiter.
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