Tantra the Way of Life,
talk given by The Father of Para-Tan and Master of the
Living Goddess Tradition and founder of the first Mahavidya Temple in
Tamil Nadu, South India,
Shri Param Eswaran
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We must come to an understanding of how important our roles are in
maintaining universe in harmony. The current global predicament is due to the fact that
so many of us have lost our divinity as men and women and have been reduced to
mere males and females. To reclaim our divinity we must understand the true
definition of power and how to perform our divine roles with grace and love.
Then we must realize how very far away we are from embodying our divine
qualities. In order to change the state of the world, solar system, galaxy, and
the great expanse of the Universe, we must first change within. Once we have
made the inward journey to unlearn and reprogram our tendencies and habits we
may then prepare for our eventual partner. Then once we find our highly
compatible soul mate who shares our commitment to nurturing the next generation
in a way that stimulates soul growth we begin preparations for union.
Truly, the beginning of our lives is the time when we must prepare for union,
and union is much more than one night of sex. Ideally the first night of
marriage is the first night the couple engages in intercourse and they continue
to do so until a child is conceived. I can imagine my own reaction upon hearing
these words only a few years ago, before I met Shri Param and encountered the
powerful and soul empowering Teachings of Para-Tan. Together they revealed the
role of woman and man in creating a harmonious universe.
We are proud to bring to you the Bija Mantras of the Goddesses that we use
during Para-Tan Sound Healing sessions on the right side of this page. When listening to this Audio-video,
please use good headphones to enjoy the maximum healing benefit of the sounds.
This is only a recording, when you receive a sound healing personally, it is
much, much, more powerful.
These Teachings are only suitable for those committed souls who truly desire to
be in tune with the Universe and are willing to serve the Universe as a part of
the whole. Although I have spent years searching within various spiritual
groups, women’s circles, holistic health, and environmental organizations and
educational institutions the array of spiritual teachings available were taught
and translated through the lens of the very monster we must escape, the world of
materialism. Regardless of how sincere and well intentioned the individuals I’ve
encountered are, they still perpetuate the teachings of the monster beast. This
beast wants automated zombies manufactured to work for poverty level wages and
keep the machine of the beast going. Without understanding the important role
men and women have in creating harmony and nurturing the next generation there
is only the perpetuation of the beast.
The purpose of this article is not to convince anyone that they should or should
not do anything. I write these words now at the request of my beloved Teacher,
Shri Param Eswaran so that the select few individuals, who are truly committed
to serving the universe selflessly and willing to work hard, will have a
framework to use in their sincere efforts. For those who are truly willing to
change, dedicate their mind, body, and spirit into service of the universe and
do whatever it takes to raise the next generation in an environment and with
education that is loving, nurturing, fully supportive, stimulates and provides
the freedom to explore their soul’s purpose. These Teachings are for you, your
partner, and your future children.
Finding a compatible partner is the most challenging obstacle each of us must
overcome. We must do away with the mentality that makes a “shopping list” of
desirable qualities in a partner, then goes shopping, or worse, puts out an
advertisement. Preparing for our soul mate means first finding our own soul and
developing our own divine qualities. As we put away selfish tendencies
conditioned into our being from birth, and take up the selfless service of the
universe we step into the role of true men and women.
Most of us raised in the belly of the beast (the western world) have accumulated
traumatic and detrimental emotional memories stored in cell receptors sites
within our organs. Clearing these emotional memories is the first step towards
preparing for one’s soul mate. With the age old traditions of meditation and
purification rituals this process alone may take decades of hard work.
Para-Tan-Sound-Healing accelerates this process so that if one is dedicated,
vigilant, committed, and steadfast it may only take two years. Fortunately for
men, this is easier for you than it is for women. Unfortunately, for this entire
process to work, it is the women who must absolutely change, clear old emotional
memories and step into our divine roles as true women, Living Goddesses. This is
a journey for divine beings to take together. The gender of our soul’s present
vehicle is a tool for creating more quality vehicles for divine souls, so divine
consciousness may know itself in dynamic form. We are divine beings, our soul’s
journey through many lifetimes and within many different vehicles is our unique
contribution to the story of creation.
As we rehearse our roles as divine beings for the stage production which is our
soul’s journey, whether our roles/vehicles are male or female, we must always
consider that the two divine polarities of Shiva and Shakti are never separate.
This is the secret to being men and women, not merely male and female. Once we
have cleared the emotional memories from our past, we are capable of finding
balance between our inner goddess and inner god, symbolized by the
hermaphroditic deity Ardh-Narishwara, who is simultaneously Adthi-Para-Shakti
and Para Brahman, Parvati/Shakti & Shiva, and the Lunar & Solar energies within
each of us. The dance between these two energies is the cosmic dance and when we
align with them we align with the flow of the universe.
The present generation of children being born are highly intelligent, evolved
and sensitive souls. In order for them to grow into the divine beings they are
meant to be, their parents must clear themselves in order to provide the
environment needed to grow and thrive. Our parents and their parents’, were not
able to provide for the needs of our souls to grow, when we were children.
Several generations of this madness has us in the present global predicament in
which we now find ourselves, and for the future of our children, it must not go
any further. This statement is not meant to be ammunition for finding fault,
placing blame, or causing guilt, rather it’s an act of placing the cards on the
table, a ‘fessing up of the facts so we may recognize our position and make a
game plan to move onwards, find balance and create harmony. Previous generations
did not have the tools we have today.
Para-Tan is a gift from the Universal
from the Divine Mother Herself, meant to be used as
a tool to create harmony. Whether it is understood or not, humans are
microcosmic embodiments of the powers of the universe, and when we are out of
balance, we create disturbances on our planet, in our solar system, galaxy, and
the Universe. It is no wonder that the Mother of Creation has stepped in at this
time in our evolutionary journey with the gift of Para-Tan to help each of us
find our soul’s purpose and place in the Universal plan which is coming to a
culmination within the next twenty years.
The souls incarnating at this time will not be able to step into their roles as
divine beings if their parents do not give them what they need to grow and
express their souls’. They must have two committed parents who are highly
compatible with each other and working together as selfless servants of the
Universe to bring forth divine children. These parents must work very hard, long
before they are in the birthing room, when the woman is in labor. These parents
must work very hard even before they meet each other. When they do meet each
other and develop a friendship and eventually decide that they will work
together as Goddess and God, Priestess and Priest, they must prepare for their
divine union.
When I say “work hard” this means actively improving our thoughts to align with
love, which is the nature of our divine role as men and women. It is not
difficult to design a house around a child and follow their lead in exploration
rather than direct their every movement. My divine niece Yogeswari was nurtured
by her father with the Para-Tan Lovemaking Ritual when she was in the womb.
Those of us blessed to be at IFC Mahavidya while she is growing and exploring
the world have been trained by Shri Param to allow her the freedom to explore
whatever her soul desires, with our only duty to ensure her safety. Rather than
being a difficult job it’s actually quite fun. It only takes a minute adjustment
and expansion of our consciousness to step into the role of divine parent.
The Alchemy of Lovemaking Rituals of Para-Tan help couples prepare for divine
union by clearing any residual emotional memory. This is not sex, which should
be reserved for the first night of marriage, which must be a date chosen
carefully according to the Vedic science and art of astrology to determine when
the planetary energies are complementary and supportive for the couple’s energy.
Twenty-one days before marriage the couple must meditate together on the divine
being they want to bring into the world. This meditation is the Para-Tan Alchemy
of Lovemaking Ritual, which includes loving touch and sound, but not sexual
intercourse. This ritual is beneficial for both the man and woman and lovingly
creates a sacred space for the soul of their child to begin
communication/relating with them on a subtle level. It is a divine preparation
to be the Mother Goddess and Father God of the next generation.
The first night of divine union should be their first night of marriage and they
should continue to practice this sacred union until a child is conceived. This
may be expected to work only for those who already have functioning reproductive
organs. Age does not matter.
The moment of conception in today’s world is all too often the place where males
and females separate. This understanding must change to involve both the Mother
and Father. From the day the Mother conceives, the Father begins his role too.
He must continue to nurture the Mother Goddess and their child with daily
massage and sound practice. This doesn’t have to be a two hour professional
massage. Even if it is twenty minutes a day it must be done. During this
practice, the Father must lay his hands gently, and tenderly on the womb of the
Divine Goddess to transmit his loving energy to the fetus of the incarnating
soul. While his hands are on the Divine Vessel he must resonate mantras into the
Goddesses navel, which in turn enters the navel of the growing vehicle of the
divine soul. The umbilical cord is like an antenna with which the soul connects
to the outer world.
The sound received by the child programs her/his cells to be clear from
emotional memories and tendencies which in today’s world are passed from the
parents to the child, making their soul’s journey very difficult at best. The
sounds transmitted within the daily Lovemaking Ritual must be short,
approximately three beats long, with each bija (seed syllable) sounded three
times. Then, in addition to this consistent daily practice, once a month the
Divine Father/Priest/God must sound around the lips of the Yoni to prepare the
opening for the eventual birth.
Para-Tan is the Sound of the Universe, and the sound of the universe is love.
With this in mind the divine parents must chose a music selection to play day
and night especially for the soul of their divine child. Music travels through
all the nadis and will give the child a head start in life because they will be
born with all of their divine channels in tact and open, ready to grow, expand
and evolve.
When the time of birth does arrive it is ideally a lotus birth in the home of
the Divine Parents. The house must be prepared before the child is born. From
the moment of marriage the parents have given up their self centered desires and
selflessly have offered themselves into the service of the universal unfolding
of divinity. With this in mind, the house is no longer designed for the parents
but as an exploration ground for the curious and developing child. Each time we
say “NO” to a child we are programming them with information that contradicts
their soul growth. The parent’s only job is to make sure the child or children
get all of their needs met with love and that they do not hurt themselves or
others. Parents are only the most recent guardians of the incarnating soul, who
has had hundreds if not hundreds of thousands of parents in previous
incarnations. The idea that parents own, possess, and control their children and
live out their dreams through them is sick and must be put away. The parent’s
job is to create an environment that stimulates soul growth and supports the
soul living their dream.
Educating the child must be done according to the child’s needs. Ideally the
parents belong to a community where the school is formed to suit the children,
not the other way around which is the case with most schools today. If this is
not possible, home-schooling is best. Each soul has different needs, which is
why their birth chart must be known to the educators, who should research their
needs as determined by their Vedic Astrology.
In the time of ancient India, Vedic Astrology was what determined whether an
incarnating soul had the nature of a Brahmin, Warrior, or Laborer. The caste
system was determined by the birth chart, not the social status of the parents.
Divine parents must make use of this information to ensure that their children
receive an education suited to their unique needs and soul growth.
The child, the world, our solar system and the entire universe will be better
served when we each make the decision to put aside our selfishness and serve the
benefit of the whole. To serve the whole means making the commitment to release
past emotional memories and conditioning, doing what it takes to find balance
within, and stepping into the role of a divine parent, considering the needs of
the next generation even before they meet their divine partner. When two divine
beings find their highly compatible soul mates in each other they must work
together to prepare for their union, which is meant to result in the creation of
a new life for a soul and a new world for us all.
On the right side of this page you will find the sound of the
Goddesses, Bija sound that are used during Para-Tan sound healing.
We are proud to bring to you Bija Mantras of
the Goddesses. When listening to this Audio-video, please use good headphones to
enjoy the maximum healing benefit of the sounds. This is only a recording, when
you receive a sound healing personally, it is much, much, more powerful.