Tantra the Way of Life,
talk given by The Father of Para-Tan and Master of the
Living Goddess Tradition and founder of the first Mahavidya Temple in
Tamil Nadu, South India,
Shri Param Eswaran
Finding your one and only Soul Mate is hard enough and staying true to each
other is another challenge altogether. So what does one do to feel true to
oneself and one's relationship?
Tantra and the Living Goddess Tradition
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We have to be true to ourselves, thus being truthful to our partner. In the
west there is this believe that one has to make sure that the relationship is
rock solid. This is a grave mistake; one can only make one's commitment to the
relationship being rock solid.
The secret is to have as many shared experiences as possible, not just when you
go out on a holiday, but from the minute you wakes up. Start the morning by
sharing moment of waking up, enjoying the dream stage one's partner is enjoying,
without disturbing the partners experience of dream-time.
Then comes shower time, this is the ideal time to share the moment of
togetherness. Giving and receiving oiling sessions, massage and scrubbing time
that will help you maintain a healthy skin and life. The experience will last
through the day till you connect again in the evening that is if you have a busy
life style.
These days in the west, we're seeing younger men wanting committed
relationships, while many women of the same age want to play the field. Young
women are putting their career and their lives before commitment. Women are
entering a very interesting phase, they've gained a lot from liberation and it's
really starting to kick in. Now, in their life they are also becoming unhealthy,
with more emotional problems. It is not within the nature of women to be so,
thus creating more emotional pain for themselves.
Being 100 percent truthful is a sure-fire way of affair-proof your relationship
or marriage. Make a pledge to be honest" Says Dr Rosie King, sex therapist.
I hope that Dr Rosie King does not totally believe the statement, for there is
no 100 per cent truthfulness to a relationship, as truthfulness has to be to
oneself, thus being committed in all one's undertaking, including one's
relationship.
When you enter a relationship, you consciously commit to a partnership, where by
you commit to be complementary to each other. Men must learn to worship their
partner, as Goddess and woman must see the man as God. Once you are ready to see
each other in this light, the relationship becomes stronger each and very
moment. Each moment of our life has to be special and always growing.
Tantra teaching shows us ways in which we can fail in our relationship.
Women must always marry a man at least 10 years older then oneself, for women
mature faster, this does not help if the man is the same age, or close to the
same age.
Always seek the advice of a good astrologer before committing into a
relationship, for sometime one can be attracted to the wrong person. Each one of
us has a unique set of people with whom we are compatible, and astrology can
show us how to do so.
Do not expect a relationship to solve your problems. If you thing that a
relationship fix your problems, no you're burying yourself in deeper problems.
Most often relationship is meeting an unmet need, and this can be very
addictive, thus the cycle of partner does not stop, and the problems keep
mounting. In today worlds it is difficult to find a person who have had less
then 5 relationship before he or she is 25.
Let also look at the navel of today's men and women, they seem to pull in one
direction or the other. In all of this women are the worst effected, even though
there are the stronger of the two sexes. Due to women's role in society they
have been given very powerful tool, and is their emotional nature. It can be
used to enhance oneself or at the same token be very destructive gift.
Let us come together and explore way of being in-tune with the Universal
Plan, thus enjoying a life filled with Joy, Bliss and harmony.
IFC Mahavidya Educational Trust and Temple offer five different programs to
help all find joy and intimacy.
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